Friday, July 31, 2020

Tips for first dating with strangers


The development of science and technology is also driving changes in people's lifestyles. Traditional dating and marriage often occur between a small range of acquaintances. But with the development of mobile applications, social applications for strangers have become more and more popular. Compared with the traditional dating model, social applications break the distance between time and space, helping more and more people get a lot of free exposure. These exposures also increase their selectivity for dating. The chance of dating different people has increased, making young people very receptive to social interactions with strangers. However, social products for strangers only help you get in touch. To really help two people become boy and girlfriends still requires offline formal contact and dating. So what should we pay attention to when dating a stranger for the first time?

The first impression is an extremely important link. According to a site survey, the first impression determines the 80% success rate of dating. Therefore, when you date a stranger for the first time, you must pay attention to your first impression. Clean and tidy dress and refreshing smell are all important factors affecting the first impression. Of course, you need to make sure that the photos and information you exchange before are authentic. In other words, you can have a video conversation before the actual date. You know, many photos can be very different through post-processing, and some people use other people's photos directly. If your photo does not match you, your date will feel cheated on the first meeting.

At the same time, a safe meeting environment is something you need to pay attention to when meeting strangers. Communication and companionship on the network platform are established in a virtual environment, and the process from virtual to reality may be difficult or risky. No matter how sweet the couple is online, you also need to give each other time to adapt when meeting in real offline. Choosing a safe environment will undoubtedly protect yourself to the greatest extent. The quiet environment where only two people are alone is something you should avoid when choosing a date place, such as a park at night or his residence. Shopping malls, McDonald's, restaurants, or movie theaters are the best places for netizens to meet. A crowded environment can prevent both parties from becoming embarrassed because there is no topic, and a crowded place can also prevent the other party from having some bad thoughts and actions.

Telephone communication before the meeting is also a good choice. Text can be modified to make it beautiful, but telephone communication can quickly identify the other person's true thoughts through tone. Regardless of personal personality or hobbies, etc., the description in the text is flat and thin. This is likely to be a way for some bad guys to hide their true identity. Through telephone communication, you can partially confirm the other party's basic information and true identity, and at the same time lay the foundation for further contact and make psychological preparations.

So when you date a stranger for the first time, you must remember to understand the character and feeling of getting along with each other under the premise of protecting yourself. As long as you are well prepared, socializing with strangers will be a good thing.

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